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Get Yourself Together While Neglectful Parents Don't Change
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Here’s what you can do to get yourself together when neglectful, dysfunctional, or toxic parents don't change - from a home and productivity perspective. I don't have any glamorous or extra motivating "advice" for y...
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Homemaking for Grieving What You Didn't Get from Neglectful Parents
Homemaking for Grieving What You Didn't Get from Neglectful Parents
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Home, Grief For What You Didn't Get, NeglectWith neglectful parents, usually, they are not doing their responsibilities because they can. They're not sorry about it. They have no plan to change.Once y...
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Homemaking For Stability & Neglect Recovery
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Home, Stability, NeglectIt's easy to say that routines are what make everything stable. Stability happens because of consistency and repetition. This doesn't mean you have to do it all alone.What may ...
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Homemaking to Heal from Mother's Neglect
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Mother's NeglectNeglect from the mother doesn’t happen once or twice. It’s repeated behavior. While many people focus on what happened in childhood, most of the time, it still happens—neglect, conflict, an...
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Homemaking to Heal From Father's Neglect
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!A homemaking plan to heal from a father's wounds is about building self-discipline and respect. No matter what happens, promise yourself that you won’t neglect yourself and call it self-care.Homemaking Man...
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Homemaking To Heal From Toxic Parents
Welcome to Sagari Gem. I'm Shannon.Home, Toxic Parents, Healing TimelineNo parents are perfect. But we're here to talk about a specific type of parent that, unfortunately, we must call dysfunctional or toxic.Toxic parents when it comes to h...
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Homemaking To Get Yourself Together, Gently
Welcome to Sagari Gem. I'm Shannon!Homemaking PlanTo get yourself together gently, it starts with your home routines. Homemaking is something you can control, even if right now it feels like it is out of control.The simplest homemaking plan could be:...
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Homemaking to Release Grief from Neglectful or Toxic Parents
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Grief and Neglectful ParentsBad moments are way different than grieving over dealing with irresponsible parents (and the impacts of their actions).Parents like these are consistent in their inconsistency. Leavi...
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Homemaking To Reparent Yourself
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm ShannonReparent YourselfThis is like a dance between healing and living. Getting back up and grieving. Happiness and sadness. Power and surrender. Responsibility and self-care. For you and others.Previous conditioning ...
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Homemaking For Dopamine Detox
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Focusing your attention back on yourself through homemaking.Start putting your energy back into your own space, mess, and routines with these basic homemaking tasks:- Dishes- Taking out the trashWhy?It's easy to com...
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Homemaking For Healing From Irresponsible Parents
Learning to manage habits and routines at home, such as preparing meals, chores, and time management, can be your path to recovery that you can practice every single day.Home tasks, yes, they are triggering. But that doesn't mean they can't...
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Homemaking for Healing From Past Neglect
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!This is about using homemaking routines such as decluttering, organizing, tidying up, and preparing your meals as options to heal from childhood neglect and abandonment.Childhood neglect can teach you to neglect you...
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homemaking to calm nervous system
Homemaking To Calm Nervous System
Welcome to Sagari Gem, I'm Shannon!Homemaking or tidying up your space can help you feel calmer, even when you don't feel like doing it. Many sources will say this is the least important thing to do, and others will claim homemaking is only...
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